Advent Study!

I shared before that it was only a few years ago that Aaron and I claimed that this holiday was all about Jesus, but we really never lived like that was true. We could say all the right Christian things about Christmas, but bottom line...our holidays were filled with gift buying, stress, busyness, activities and Jesus was an afterthought.

Then we'd be annoyed that our kids seemed so greedy and acted like Christmas was only about the presents. How silly of us! What else could we have expected?

Last year was our first year to do an advent study in our home. Last year a lot of our traditions changed.

I think sometimes when we throw out the Santa version of Christmas we're left with a stripped down version of Christmas that can be as void of joy and worship as it was when we were distracted with other things.

Have I mentioned lately how much I have loved Noel Piper's book, Treasuring God in our Traditions? The book is not all about Christmas. It's about the value of tradition in a Christian home...special holiday traditions...as well as every day traditions. The goal of tradition is to remember and remind ourselves and our children about the story of God's love, the great length to which He has gone to redeem us and to restore all things.

From Treasuring God in our Traditions...

"The word tradition isn’t in the Old Testament, but the reality is there. In the passages where God gives instructions for the ceremonies he designed, he repeatedly makes clear his purposes for these occasions. When we recognize his purposes, we’ll have a better idea as to what makes a godly tradition in our own homes. About the Passover celebration, for example, we read:

It was a night of watching by the LORD, to bring them out of the land of Egypt; so this same night is a night of watching kept to the LORD by all the people of Israel throughout their generations.
(Exodus 12:42)

Some of the phrases in the verse help us see at least some of what God had intended for his people through their traditions.

• “A night of watching by the LORD”

—God wants his people to remember what he himself did for them.

• “A night . . . to the LORD”

—God wants them to honor him for what he’s done.

• “Throughout their generations”

—God wants their children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren to hear the story of his salvation so they too will remember and honor him.

If we look at God’s instructions for the Festival of Booths commemorating the Jews’ forty years of desert wanderings, we see another important piece of his purpose.

You shall dwell in booths for seven days. All native Israelites shall dwell in booths, that your generations may know that I made the people of Israel dwell in booths when I brought them out of the land of Egypt: I am the LORD your God.
(Leviticus 23:42-43, emphasis added)

As with the Passover, God wants his people to celebrate in a way that re-enacts the story of his mighty deeds. And again he wants the coming generations to hear the story and celebrate him and what he’s done. Then there is an additional piece:

• “I am the LORD your God”

—God was not just part of their history. Their traditions are to proclaim that he is their God now. He is I AM.

Advent is a special time of remembering the Christmas story. It's a time of waiting...of preparation.

It's a time for us to teach our children and remind them like scripture says of all that God has done. It's also a time for us as adults to remember. I need to be reminded of the truths found in the Christmas Story just as much as our little ones need to be reminded.

Kids learn best from repetition, but I do as well! It does my soul good to sit with the beauty of the Christmas story for an entire month. I am reminded of God's great love for us, of how far He will go to make things right, and most importantly I am reminded that this world is not our home. Christmas reminds me to long for heaven. It reminds me that Jesus will come again some day, but not as a baby. He'll come as a mighty King to judge the world. Christmas helps me remember that this world needs to hear the gospel. Christmas helps me remember that my children need Jesus. I love them so much and want them to be declared righteous before our holy God. I want God to use me to point them towards heaven and use our holiday traditions to do that as well. Christmas reminds me to pray for their salvation and yearn for these kids to be a part of our lives forever as believers.

We will celebrate Christmas again this year by doing an advent study all month long.

There are several different ways to do the advent thing. Some families may choose to do a study every Sunday of advent. Others do a study every evening, or most evenings in December.

Advent begins THIS SUNDAY NIGHT, November 29.

In our home, we bought an advent wreath. We have four red candles with a white one in the middle. It's nothing fancy. This year, I'd like one on the coffee table and on the dining room table, so instead of buying another one, we're going to use Mandi's idea and let the kids make candle holders. Recipe for dough here.

We are using this Advent study. I think someone sent this to us last year (Brandon, Sarah...I can't remember?)

We won't teach our kids all the songs recommended because we don't know some of them. We will teach them Oh Come Oh Come Emmanuel, Angels We Have Heard on High, Away in a Manger, Oh Little Town of Bethlehem and Hark the Herald Angels Sing.

We're Baptist, not Presbyterian but Aaron read through the study and was pleased with the theology behind the daily devotionals.

So what does this look like in our home?

We gather together at night and do the devotional. We sing some songs. We pray together. We let the kids act out parts of the story or let them tell the story with our touchable manger.

The study we are using is only four nights per week. On the other nights we want to spend time with other families, serve together or go back over parts of the study we think need to be covered better.

As far as traditions go...

I'll write more about those later, but last year I sat and thought about what traditions would bless my family the most and honor the Lord.

One of my family's favorite things is having people over for dinner or for dessert. Last year I wanted to bless them so I got out the calendar, sent out a bunch of emails and filled our evenings up with people...with good friends and people we wanted to get to know better. We would either have people over for dinner or dessert and then we'd all do the advent study together that evening. Sweet, sweet memories were created last year!

If you have questions about the study or how to do advent, please let me know. I'd love to help.

I printed out the study and found some fun activities to do during the day with the kids that correspond to what Aaron will be teaching them in the evenings during our advent study.

I'll try to share those soon. I would love more ideas.

Added bonus...before doing advent last year we were sort of hit or miss on the whole "disciple your kids" thing. Advent was a great way for us to become more disciplined about family devotions. All the material was right there for us! Because of advent we were so used to teaching our kids from the Bible every day that we continued family devotions after advent was over. Advent was a sweet time for us as we learned the value of slowing down and imparting LIFE and wisdom from God's Word into the hearts of our children.

While you're at it, you might want to order this CD. An Advent study plus Andrew Peterson's Behold the Lamb might be all anyone needs to make this holiday a time of worship and joy!

Happy Advent!

Thanksgiving Fun

We're making these cute things right now. They are turning out precious!

I want to put together a Thanksgiving craft for the cousins to do on Thanksgiving Day. I'm thinking these could be fun.

Got any fun Thanksgiving craft ideas?

Santa

I'm laughing at how nervous I am to write about Santa.
Will I ever get over the fear of man?

We get asked by college students and newly marrieds if we "do Santa."

In the past, we would have answered them by saying, "No. We don't do the Santa thing" and then focused on the reasons why we don't.

Those reasons being...

We don't want to lie to our kids. We personally can't find a way to scripturally support telling our kids a lie or leading them to believe something that isn't true. That always seemed weird to us. We want our kids to trust us. We know that God has done a huge thing by giving these kids little hearts that naturally believe what we say. They want to believe us! What a gift when we think of how tender God has made their hearts as we are teaching them things like the gospel. But what a serious thing to consider if we're purposely misleading them in any way, abusing their trust by telling them lies. Maybe there is a way to do the Santa thing without lying. We just couldn't figure out how to do that.

We were concerned that we were giving our kids mixed messages about what this time of year is about. Even without Santa, we can still fail to teach our kids about the real reason we remember this holiday. We have to be ever on our guard to keep out the yuck that is materialism and consumerism and keep God's plan of redemption as our centerpiece.

We have other "issues" with the idea of Santa that seem to contradict solid truths we're trying to communicate to our kids from scripture (but I'm going to add an excerpt from Noel Piper below, and she covers all of our personal concerns better than I could).

Those are the main reasons. However, after being more intentional about our holidays the last couple years I think we would answer those college students and newly marrieds differently.

Since Santa isn't mentioned in the Bible, I think we would make it clear that this is another area where we have to go to God's Word and reconcile this idea of Santa with the bigger teachings of the Bible.

Again, John 10:10 has shaped our thinking (anyone surprised?). The enemy's job is to steal, kill and destroy. God came to give us a rich and satisfying life. We want our traditions to be free of the enemy's distractions and deceptions and filled with rich, satisfying traditions that point straight to Jesus. We have a lot to learn, and know we don't do that perfectly, but that is the goal...to enjoy God fully and savor His story that is also our own story.

Are we allowing the enemy to rob our children of the full beauty of the Christmas story?

Another verse that has shaped our thinking is 1 Corinthians 10:23:

"Everything is permissible"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"—but not everything is constructive.

Maybe teaching kids that Santa is real, or letting them believe Santa is real and not correcting them is permissible, but for the life of us, we can't figure out how it's constructive or beneficial for pointing our kids towards Jesus and the beauty and truth of the Christmas Story. We can't figure out how it would be beneficial in building trust in their hearts towards us, as their parents.

Verses like the ones in Isaiah (where God is saying He will not share his glory with anyone and speaks out pretty harshly about how distracted the Israelites have been with made up idols) have also been words that spoke to our hearts while thinking through Santa.

Are we sharing God's fame and glory with a made up, man-made image?

Those verses have definitely shaped our thinking but at one point that is where our thoughts about Santa would have ended. We would have focused on the "what we don't do" instead of what the Lord has lead us to do. All of those things are still true in our hearts, but I get kind of bored talking about the small things we've not included during this season because I'm too excited about all the goodness God has poured into our home during the holidays! Who wants to think about or talk about Santa when you can talk about Jesus and the sweetness of advent?

The truth is...

There is so much about the Christmas story...so many absolutely true things from scripture...so many good, wondrous, mysterious, life-impacting, miraculous thoughts about Christmas right out of the Bible that we want to ingrain in the minds of our children during the holiday season that we simply don't have time to care about Santa, and quite frankly...the idea of Santa seems small and pales in comparison to everything else we want to bring to life for our children this Christmas.

We want their holiday season to be filled with longing...excitement and anticipation as we remember what it must have been like for the people of Israel to wait for the promised Messiah. We want to focus their hearts and minds on the fact that we are still waiting...right now, longing for the return of our King. He's coming back again!

We want the Christmas story and characters to come to life for them in all of its richness...the wise men, the shepherds...Mary, Joseph...the prophecies that were fulfilled, every last one of them and point them towards a faithful God who keeps His promises. He said He would come the first time and Christmas teaches us that God is faithful. Which means...He is going to come again.

We want to dive into scripture this month and learn about God's character...his love...his servant heart, and then ask the Lord to help us be more like Him.

A million incredible truths...so little time.

To be honest, we feel overwhelmed with how many truths we want to pass down to our kids (year round) but also every December. Trying to add in something like Santa seems silly to us. As a teacher, I find it harder to justify Santa. Our goal is to communicate to our kids during Christmas why we celebrate this holiday...what its true meaning is. As a teacher when I'm teaching anything else, I want my kids to succeed...to learn. I would never try to teach them something complex and add in elements that were not true, or distracted them from the real things I wanted them to know. I wouldn't waste time teaching them things that I was claiming were "unimportant" when there are important things that do need to be taught and taught well in order for them to grasp what I'm trying to teach.

We don't "do the Santa thing" but what I hope we are doing is creating memories in our children's hearts. I pray December is a special time for them that is filled with truth, family, friends...sitting around the fire listening to true stories of mystery, wonder, goodness and grace. I pray they look back and remember our home filled with friends, families, neighbors...light and life.

I pray they remember times in front of the fire, or snuggled up on the couch as we listen to the very breath of God read in our living room.

We don't hate Santa. What a fun idea. Who could hate Santa? Our kids watch movies with Santa in them, but he is no more real than any other make believe person.

Those are our thoughts. Once again...these are not meant to condemn or judge anyone. But this is our family blog, and isn't that what these things are for...sharing things going on in your own family?

There are things we don't understand about the Santa thing, but that's okay. The point of this post is to share our convictions in case anyone else is thinking through these things. That's where we are and why we're there.

Please don't feel the need to defend why you "do Santa." I don't want anyone to have to do that.

If anything, maybe this post will simply help you to understand why people "don't do Santa." As believers...as a part of one family...I think it's important to understand where others are coming from and how the Word of God is shaping our convictions and the way we live our lives. I have good friends who "do Santa." I have appreciated hearing where they are and why they celebrate differently than we feel led to celebrate.

If you're thinking through the Santa thing, here is an excerpt from Noel Piper's Book, Treasuring God in our Traditions. She talks about Santa. It's long, which will make this post even longer...but hopefully it will be helpful if this is something you're working through right now. I greatly respect the Piper family. What a treasure to have these words from an older, much wiser woman available to us.

Thinking About Santa

For several reasons, we have chosen not to include Santa Claus in our Christmas stories and decorations. First, fairy tales are fun, but we don’t ask our children to believe them.

Second, celebrating with Santa and manger will postpone a child’s clear understanding of what the real truth of God is. It’s very difficult for a young child to pick through a marble cake of part truth and part imagination to find the crumbs of reality. We want our children to understand God as fully as they’re able, at whatever age they are. So we try to avoid anything that would inhibit or distort that understanding.

Third, think how confusing it must be to a literal-thinking, uncritical preschooler. Santa is so much like what we’re trying all year to teach our children about God. Look at the “attributes” of Santa:

• He’s omniscient—he sees everything you do.
• He rewards you if you’re good.
• He’s omnipresent—at least, he can be everywhere in one night.
• He gives you good gifts.
• He’s the most famous “old man in the sky” figure.

But at the deeper level that young children can’t comprehend yet, he is not like God at all. For example, does Santa really care if we’re bad or good? Think of the most awful kid you can remember. Did he or she ever not get gifts from Santa? What about Santa’s spying and then rewarding you if you’re good enough? That’s not the way God operates. He gave us his gift—his Son—even though we weren’t good at all. “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). He gave his gift to us to make us good, not because we had proved ourselves good enough.

Helping our children understand God as much as they’re able at whatever age they are is our primary goal. But we’ve also seen some other encouraging effects of not including Santa in our celebration.

First, I think children are glad to realize that their parents, who live with them all year and know all the worst things about them, still show their love at Christmas. Isn’t that better than a funny, old make-believe man who drops in just once a year? Second, our children know our family’s usual giving patterns for birthdays and special events. They seem to have an instinct about our typical spending levels and abilities. Knowing that their Christmas gifts come from the people they love, rather than from a bottomless sack, can help diminish the “I-want-this, give-me-that” syndrome.

And, finally, when children know that God’s generosity is reflected by God’s people, it tends to encourage a sense of responsibility about helping make Christmas good for others. Karsten, for example, worked hard on one gift one year. On Christmas morning in 1975, my husband stepped around a large, loose-flapped cardboard box to get to his chair at the breakfast table. “Where’s Karsten?” he asked, expecting to see our excited three-year-old raring to leap into the day. Sitting down, I said, “He’ll be here in a minute.”

I nudged the box with my toe. Karsten threw back the flaps and rose to his full three-foot stature. “And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them . . .” He had memorized Luke 2:8-20 as a gift for his dad. Karsten knew Santa wasn’t the one to depend on.

In fact, a few days later Karsten and I were walking down the hall at church. One of the older ladies leaned down to squeeze his pink, round cheek and asked, “What did Santa bring you?” Karsten’s head jerked quickly toward me, and he whispered loudly, “Doesn’t she know?”

These thoughts raise the question: If not Santa, then what?

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Hopefully we can cover the "then what" together as we share this week.

When talking about the Santa issue, I know the hardest part is NOT deciding to leave Santa out of your family's Christmas traditions. The hardest part is figuring out how to communicate your desires to your family members. Very tricky for some people.

It's also hard when you don't celebrate Santa to figure out how to communicate to your children that other families, even Christian families do.

People ask us all the time...

"How do you teach your kids not to tell other kids there is no Santa? What do you do if you don't want to celebrate Santa, but the grandparents are hostile towards that idea, or you have siblings who DO teach their kids that Santa is real?"

I wish I had an answer for any of that.

I don't. It's very hard and very tricky.

We're blessed that both sides of grandparents were fine with not doing the Santa thing. I'm also blessed that the only person with small kids in our family (Jason and Lynsey) don't do the Santa thing either. But every year, I have no idea how to help our kids be considerate of other families who teach their kids that Santa is real.

If you have figured out how to deal with this and teach your kids how to be considerate of others, do tell!

And the Winner Is...

Wow.

Multiple ways to enter a drawing means a lot of name writing, paper cutting and paper folding.

Thankfully I have several little boys who have mad scissor skills.

Ashton just pulled a name out of the bowl!

The winner of the cute owl from Oh Sweet Joy is:

"Will and Kate"

Yay Kate!

A true testimony to the power of multiple entries, right?

You can email Kim at kimdavis09@gmail.com to claim your owl.

If you haven't claimed it by Wednesday, Kim gets to keep it.

But I know Kate will claim her prize. Hope you love your owl!

Thanks so much Kim for doing this giveaway.

I pray sweet blessing over your work and thank God for your heart! What a joy to know part of the money I sent you for my owl family is not causing social injustice across the globe AND part of the proceeds are going to such great organizations.

Planning to make this Season Special

The drawing for the owl from Oh Sweet Joy is today! The winner will be announced later in the day. You can still enter until I leave a comment that says..."Time's Up!"
To enter you can go here.


This week we have a very light load for school. My plan is to not only spend some much needed time slowing down and resting but also to get a real, concrete plan for our family as we celebrate the gift of Christmas this December.

I've mentioned before that it wasn't long ago that Christmas would come and sort of "land" on us. We had bought or made gifts (usually last minute) and were ready in that regard, but emotionally and spiritually we had not let the richness of the Christmas story soak into our souls. We had not savored all the goodness God had for us as we remembered what it meant for Jesus to come here to this Earth.

My favorite verse in the Bible is John 10:10.

The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.

I believe the Christmas season has so much potential for good and for evil.

The enemy is a liar and a thief. He desires to rob us of the richness of the Christmas story. Like a roaring lion he is prowling around our families waiting to pounce.

He seduces us with lies, with materialism, with greed, with feelings of jealousy, discontent, and inadequacy.

I believe that the Lord wants to redeem the holiday season for believers.

If we were to journey back a few years ago in our home our house and the way we celebrated Christmas would not have looked much different from other homes on our street. As believers there wasn't much difference in how we celebrated the birth of Jesus and how people who don't claim to belong to God celebrated Christmas.

The problem...

We had never sat back and thought about why we do the things we do.

The Bible says for us to live purposefully.

And yet we had never thought through some very huge aspects of our holiday traditions. We had no plan. We were not intentional about the holidays. We had no goals. We floated along in the current of the world's ideas and thoughts without taking time to think. This usually spells disaster for God's people.

We needed to go to scripture and think through things like...

Should we do the Santa thing?

How much money should we spend for Christmas?

Is going into debt at Christmas something that pleases the Lord?

How can we imitate God's heart during the holiday season?

What can we learn from the Christmas story? How can the things we learn from the Christmas story change our lives forever?

Do all of our holiday traditions point to one place...God's glory?

Are we distracting our children in any way and sending them confusing messages about this time of year?

We are still journeying through all of these thoughts and adding new ones every year.

Our heart's desire is to make Christmas a special time of worship and thanksgiving.

We're still tempted to make this time of year more about gifts, having things "just right" and materialism than we are on focusing on Jesus, the richness and beauty of the Christmas story, serving others and remembering God's love for every man, woman and child.

I hate that, but it's true. We need Jesus and his grace in abundant measure every day of December!

So that's where I am this week...working on solidifying some holiday plans for time with our family...friends...neighbors...times to serve in our community...working on a plan for focused worship...a time to savor every element of the Christmas story.

One book that has helped us immensely is Noel Piper's book, Treasuring God in our Traditions. I wish every Christian household had this book sitting on their shelf. You can buy the book, or read it online for free.

This book would also make a great gift for a woman in your life (hint, hint hubbies!).

If you've never sat down and thought about the "why" behind the "what your family is doing" during Christmas, I encourage you to start thinking through your holiday traditions. Only good can come of humbling ourselves before the Lord and asking Him if what He sees in our lives is pleasing to Him.

I always want to be faithful to remind everyone (and myself) that God is good. He doesn't take pleasure in taking things away from us. God does not rob and steal from us. Satan does. God GIVES. I used to think that if we change how we celebrate Christmas we will be removing all the good, fun parts and be left with nothing. What a lie from the enemy. With everything we have "taken away" during this season, God has added life-giving, life-bringing, inspiring, sweet things to our life during the holiday season...good, rich, satisfying traditions. We can trust the Lord. He is good, gracious and the entire Bible is a story about God redeeming us and rescuing us OUT of our depraved thoughts and ideas.

You certainly don't have to take on our convictions about the holidays, but if you have no convictions, as in...you've never thought through any of this before, then I encourage you to have a plan and know the purpose of why you do what you do during the holidays. Take your thoughts and ideas to the Lord and let Him search through them and speak to you.

For many years I wanted Christmas to be different, but I never planned for things to be different. With no plan, we fail. So...we failed year after year to make any tangible changes in our home.

Planning is important.

From Noel Piper...

"Christmas is only one small part of a whole year of living, working, and ministering in our churches and to our neighbors, of meeting our family’s physical needs, of teaching our children. Just one small part of the year—but with our hearts and spirits open in anticipation and excitement, what an ideal opportunity for remembering and teaching. We’ve seen in earlier chapters how important it is to plan our “everyday” traditions so that we reflect our view of the world and God. How much more important our planning is for celebrations of a world-shaking event like God being born a baby so that we can be reborn as his children."

I'm asking God to flood our hearts with worship, adoration, thanksgiving, fellowship, service, generosity, love and joy this holiday season.

But I need a plan.

So I'm off to work on that plan....anyone planning too?

We still have a whole week before December!

They Turned the Lights on Downtown So...

we met some friends

and had a festive ol' time.

Hudson is not a fan of the opera singing lady.
I kept trying to get him to look at me.
He kept looking away as if to say...
"Maybe if I don't look at the lady singing, she will go away."

crazy how much I love these ladies

And how much I love this little mister

make that ALL these little misters
Hayden lost BOTH front teeth last week.
I didn't think he could get any cuter.

I wish I could say those two teeth fell out on their own.
But I'd be telling a lie.
We left a garage sale in our neighborhood.
As we were leaving, the boys said, "Do we have to buckle up?"
I thought about it for a second being the FREAK about seat belts that I am.
"No." I decided they could live on the edge and travel unbuckled for the half mile it would take us to get home.
Did I mention we were in our neighborhood?

About two seconds later a lady backed out of her driveway and almost ran into us.
Aaron was going about five miles an hour.
He put on the brakes.
Hayden flew forward and hit his mouth on the console between the two front seats.

I wish I could say those teeth were about to fall out anyway.
I'd be telling a lie.
They were "kind of" loose.

After hitting his mouth on the console, Hayden looked up and yep...blood everywhere...and one tooth was not in his mouth. The other one was hanging on for dear life.

He pulled the second tooth when we got home.

We learned our lesson.

ALWAYS WEAR YOUR SEAT BELT!

My poor baby!

He now has a little lisp. Too cute.

Yay for Christmas lights!
Can you believe it's this time of year already?

Then we went and ate dessert.

That's the way every great evening should end.

Shopping Can Be Fun!

photo from Jessica's blog

Our sweet friend, Jessica works for a non-profit called Children At Heart Ministries.

Several months ago, Jessica wrote about her work at Children At Heart Ministries and how this opportunity has changed and grown her. You can read her story here. Or...just go say hi to Jessica. She's one of the coolest people we know. She was one of "our girls" when she was here at Texas A&M. Simply put...we adore her. If she would agree to move back to our town, we would go pick her up and move her here all by ourselves.

We have an amazing opportunity to support the work that Children At Heart Ministries does as we're shopping this Christmas Season.

Hey...I know not everyone is into this "Fair Trade" stuff. So...I wanted you to know of a great way you can help no matter where you shop this holiday season.


More than 1,300 top stores, including Amazon, Toys R Us, Best Buy, Apple, Gap and more, will donate a percentage of virtually every sale to Children At Heart Ministries.

Just go to GoodShop.com.

Designate Children At Heart as the cause you support and then click through to your favorite store.

You pay nothing extra.

You can even save money since GoodShop lists thousands of money-saving coupons and free shipping offers.

I'm pretty sure this is the easiest way to support an incredible ministry this holiday season!

Please go check it out! If you're going to shop online, might as well help a wonderful ministry that helps children in need.

Or look through the list of the nonprofits and see if your favorite cause is listed. How fun!

I didn't think online shopping could get any better than it already is.

I was wrong!

Christa Taylor

Okay...I give up.

There's NO WAY to give all of the remaining great companies some coverage before Monday.

Next week I want to write about advent. However, I'll continue to keep highlighting more of these incredible businesses next week as well.

In the mean time, don't forget about the give away from Oh Sweet Joy. We'll draw Monday for the cutie-patootie owl. You can still enter the drawing by going here.

Looking for cute, modest clothing? Didn't think that was possible this side of heaven?

Well....I've got great news!

Check out Christa Taylor.

These clothes are way chic and Christa Taylor is another company that gives back part of their proceeds to fight social injustice around the world.

I seriously can't get over how much I did not know before doing this series. I had no idea so many great companies like Christa Taylor existed. I appreciate all of you who sent in these wonderful places to shop.

From Christa Taylor's website...

"You've probably experienced the challenges of picking through mainstream collections and small boutique shops searching, seemingly endlessly, for a cute outfit that is not revealing.

Christa Taylor decided that enough was enough. Now, through Christa-Taylor.com, you are an empowered traditionalist!

Christa-Taylor.com is a clothing company with a conscience, donating 5% of all orders to social justice programs around the world. The current recipient is Warm Blankets, an organization in Cambodia that builds and operates orphanages."

Check them out...and spread the word about this great company! Here's a link to the orphanage your money will bless when you buy from Christa Taylor.

Ta Lam Church Orphan Home

You can also read Christa's blog. It is filled with lots of helpful beauty tips without focusing so much on vanity. I read through the articles and learned some new things and didn't leave the site hating myself for not being "beautiful enough" or "groomed enough."

Christa's blog and her clothing line seem like they are for actual, real-life people. Imagine that!

What a cute coat!

Pangea Water Bottles

I told you! OVERLOAD today!

If you can't check out all these great companies today, please come back this weekend and browse around. These places are terrific.

Water bottles are the coolest these days....so trendy...and WAY better on the environment than disposable water bottles.

Not only do I love that Pangea water bottles are made from quality materials that won't give ya cancer (you might get cancer some other way, but it won't be from these bottles) they are also a great company with a great cause.

"Pangea Bottles are made with food grade 18/8 Stainless Steel. This steel is 100% recyclable, non-leeching, and chemical free. (Plus our bottles are extremely durable!)"

These bottles contain no BPA.

photo from Living Water's website

From Pangea's website...

"Pangea Bottles is founded on a simple concept: for every bottle you purchase, Pangea is giving a person in need clean water for four years. By drilling water wells in isolated villages around the world, we are changing people's lives in remarkable ways. Our mission is to provide the people in developing nations clean water by leveraging the power of individuals to make a difference in a sustainable way. A child dies every 15 seconds from a water related disease. It costs Living Water International average of $0.98 to provide clean, safe water to one person for one year."

Pangea partners with Living Water. Please check out Living Water. They are another great ministry that is bringing hope and health to people all over the world.

Wouldn't these bottles fit nicely into a stocking? I think so!

Love You Some Etsy?

Below is another Etsy shop run by "Ness," a reader here at Sit a Spell.

"Ness" pointed out that Etsy is a great place to shop. A lot of the vendors use and sell refurbished goods, recycled products and vintage items.

www.vintagebutterfly94.etsy.com

From Ness...

"Etsy as a whole is an artist collective. Many Etsy sellers are conscientious of the materials they use and where they come from and what impact they have on the world and the people in it."

What I love best about Etsy is you're one step away from the buyer. You can ask questions. You can ask where their materials come from and if they are mindful of fair trade standards. I have been very appreciative of the vendor's honesty when I've asked.

One day I'll write about lessening our ecological/environmental/consumer footprint by purchasing used, refurbished or recycled goods. Etsy is a great place to do that. Maybe a product was originally bought from a company whose business practices violate my conscious for making purchases. If I buy that product used (like in an Etsy shop, or at a garage sale) then I'm no longer contributing financially to the system that causes yuck things to happen in this world. Instead, I'm simply re-using...recycling...and most importantly participating in a small way with the Lord in redeeming all things. That's pretty fun.

I'm so new to Etsy. I thought it would be fun today for you to tell us about your favorite Etsy shops (hopefully Kim's is on your list now).

Give your favorite artists a shout out!

Why My Kids Could Never Go to Public School

Setting: We're learning about the Respiratory System. I had just handed Hayden an in depth diagram of an alveolus (plural=alveoli).

He takes one look at the page and blurts out...

"Gross! Mom. Alveoli look like those things back there behind my wee-wee."

Anson says...

"Your tenders?"

If I wasn't the principal, I would have sent them both to her office.

Freeset Bags

Warning: today I will overload your reader with posts about great companies that either give back to great organizations, fight injustice, practice fair trade, or use American made materials.

I have a bunch of companies left to talk about, and only two more days left in the week.

Next week I want to talk about advent!

Don't forget about the give away from Oh Sweet Joy below!
To enter you can go here.
Drawing will be Monday!

Freeset Bags

What a great company. Please take some time to look around their website...let the faces behind these products soak in.

From Freeset's website:

Freeset is a fair trade business offering employment to women trapped in Kolkata's sex trade. We make quality jute bags and organic tee-shirts, but our business is freedom!

We would like to see the 10,000 sex workers in our neighborhood empowered with the choice of leaving a profession they never chose in the first place.

You can read how this business got started. The story is incredible.

Or you can watch this video.



Is it nuts that this video made crocodile tears run down my face?

I had to do some research. I wanted to know if this couple who up and moved to India with their children to love the poor are believers. They are.

Although these are Christians running a business they make it real clear this is not charity work. They want to empower the women in India, and their products are high quality.

Praise God for the work they are doing!

If you live in the US you can buy from Asha Imports or Better Way Imports.

If you live in another country check out the vendors in your area.

Who knew these great companies existed?

Now we do! So lets spread the word!

Got a Skateboarder in Your Life?

Don't forget about the give away from Oh Sweet Joy below!
To enter you can go here.

Have you heard me talk about my new bloggy friend, Mandi?

I've met her in real life and she's real life friends with my sis-in-law, Lynsey. There is always a link to Mandi's blog, The Herban Homestead right here at Sit a Spell.

Mandi has been a huge help to me on this path to eating better and figuring out how to do stuff on my own instead of paying someone else to do it (like make jelly, bread, yogurt...those kinds of things.) I'm not talking about dentistry, surgery or cosmetology or anything like that. My family is thankful I've left those jobs to the professionals.

for now (hee-hee)

Anywhozers...

All that to say, I love Mandi. I've sent her many a weird email. Emails I don't have to preface with, "I know I'm a weirdo but..."

Mandi is a way bigger, brilliant weirdo than I'll ever be and for that she is near and dear to my heart. She's one of the few people I've felt completely comfortable "letting all my weird out" with at once. I've never had to pace out my weirdness with Mandi.

I love reading her blog. I bet you will too. She makes me get up from my computer ready to go squeeze my kids, go outside, stick my hands in the earth or put my dukes up and fight injustice in this world. Mandi is the epitome of a kindred spirit.

It's not surprising that I had NO IDEA Mandi and her husband run a non-profit skateboarding ministry called Middleman Skateboards.

I'm sure Mandi has about a cu-jillion more tricks and talents up her sleeves that I don't know anything about.

I'm not sure how all that talent and knowledge fits inside her head.

I told ya...I've seen the girl in real life and I'm here to say...

Her head was normal sized when I met her.

exhibit A
normal sized head

If you've got some skaters in your life, please go check out Middleman Skateboards.

From Mandi...

The heart behind Middleman Skateboards

"One of the purposes of Middleman is to train and equip leaders in communities to minister to their local skate boarders. In the past John has designed and built skate parks on church grounds, but we are finding that the best way to reach skaters is to go to them in the public parks. That is where the community outreach person comes in. We offer them the training and equipment they need to go into their community and distribute boards, shirts and stickers for free. For every 2 boards we sell, we are able to give one away for free. Our hope is that through our boards, relationships will be formed and the love of Christ will be shared."

Want to reach out to skaters where you live?

"We are looking for churches around the country that are interested in raising up leaders to reach the skaters in their community."

Need to buy a board?

"Our boards are sourced and made in the USA. That makes the boards a little more for us to buy, but those extra dollars mean a safe work environment and the peace of mind that no human is being exploited. Our screen printing is also done stateside."

Take a look at Middleman's Website.


I think any skater would like one of these cool tees or hoodies.

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I hope you don't get tired of me saying this, but I'm incredibly thankful for companies like this one and the ones we've gotten the chance to hear about so far on this blog.

Please help them out by spreading the word about these great companies whose desire is to make quality products in a way that doesn't compromise their beliefs about how sacred life is, how important children are, and how much God wants us to care for the laborers...the people making our stuff that fills our homes and garages. Praise God for companies like these giving so much back...providing money or training for people to do God's work...share the gospel and bring good news to the poor and brokenhearted.

Maybe you're not a skateboarder, baby-shoe buyer, or owl enthusiast. However, maybe those people exist in your life and you can spread the word through all the great mediums we have at our disposal these days (your blog, facebook, that twitter-dee-doo-dah thing and email).

It might be a baby step...but I believe we're ushering in change with every dollar we spend.

That gets my heart-a-pumping and makes my soul sing.