There we were, a big fat mess, confessing our greed to God and asking Him to help us get rid of what we don't need, live simpler lives, freeing up our finances so that we could give...invest...in ministries around the world who are caring for and loving the destitute...the outcasts...the helpless. We were trying to stay informed about issues surrounding the plight of the poor. We needed to reduce our spending. We needed to purge our lives of a bunch of unnecessary things. We stuck a for sale sign in our front yard, (I cried, and removed it three times before leaving it up permanently).
Looking back, it wasn't nearly as traumatic as it felt while we were in the middle of it all. Scaling back. Spending less. Giving more. Wanting to pour our lives out for the poor...make the changes we felt were necessary to live out these new, foreign convictions. Asking God to help us remember what really matters. These were all good things. They are and were freeing things. Each step brought a lot of unexpected joy. Trying to follow Jesus' example requires faith we do not naturally have. Maybe we're supposed to be in these positions more often...maybe even every day...where we realize how faithless we are and how much we need God to help us. Maybe that's the very best place to be?
But a girl's got to eat, right? There are times when you need some new underwear or an outfit to wear to your roommate's wedding. So how do you know where to shop? How do we make informed decisions about the products we're buying and the companies we're supporting? Unless we were going to be Amish or travel back in time a couple hundred years, we had to find some answers to those questions.
As much as I would love to be Amish, I didn't think Aaron would go for that. He won't even wear natural deodorant, even though I tell him every day that he's going to get underpit cancer. Doesn't being Amish seem dreamy in the movies? Isn't an "Amish" movie one of the most ironic concepts of all time? I hear Alanis Moressette again. Do you think she got married, had a baby, and sings her crazy songs as good-night lullabies?
Oh. Sorry. Forgot. I'm writing about responsible consumerism. Okay..
I heard about The Better World Shopping Guide from the Trade as One blog. Trade as One is doing beautiful work, compiling a really great list of companies that truly care for their employees.
Oh. Sorry. Forgot. I'm writing about responsible consumerism. Okay..
I heard about The Better World Shopping Guide from the Trade as One blog. Trade as One is doing beautiful work, compiling a really great list of companies that truly care for their employees.
from The Better World Shopping Guide...
THE PROBLEM
It follows that wherever large amounts of money collect, so also new centers of power form. The latest historical manifestation of this is the modern corporation. As trillions of dollars accumulate in the corporate sphere, we witness the growing power of corporations to shape the world as they see fit.
This power is not limited to controlling the face of our own government through consistent, record-breaking, campaign contributions, but also the faces of millions of people and the planet itself through jobs, resource exploitation, pollution, working conditions, energy consumption, forest destruction and so on.
Make no mistake, these new power centers are not democracies. We don't vote for the CEO's or their policies (unless we are rich enough to be significant shareholders, who are informed enough to know what's going on, and compassionate enough to care about more than just personal profit), yet our destinies are increasingly in their hands.
THE SOLUTION
As these power centers shift, we must shift our own voices if we wish to be heard. As citizens, on average, we might vote once every four years, if at all. As consumers, we vote every single day with the purest form of power...money. The average American family spends around $18,000 every year on goods and services. Think of it as casting 18,000 votes every year for the kind of world you want to live in."
This book is a great tool. It goes in your purse. If I want to buy granola bars at the store, I can pull out my handy dandy book and look up energy bars....
Each company is rated on an A-F scale, based on factors such as social responsibility and environmental factors. Environmental factors quickly turn into social responsibility issues when you consider companies like Coca Cola have been criticized for depleting and polluting the water sources of the poorest of the poor in India. See how they are connected?
Standing in front of the granola bars I can quickly read that Luna bars get the grade A, Nature Valley and Quaker get B's and Kashi (surprisingly) gets a "C minus".
Want to buy crackers?
Annies, Barbara's and Nature's Path get A's. Nabisco and Kraft crackers...they get "F's."
Clothing?
Did you know that Dillards has NO code of conduct for sweatshops, earning it an "F" along with Wal-Mart?
There are many, many, complex elements involved as we consider the poor and specifically the laborers around the world who make the products we buy. I will never claim to be able to understand all the ins and outs of global economics, but it just seems to make sense to me that we support companies that are trying to do what is right and value the people who make the products they sell. I would love to see these companies do really well and hopefully other companies get the message loud and clear that consumers do care about the people who make the products in their shopping carts.
I can't recommend this little guide enough.
As a matter of fact, I love this book so much that I asked the author if we could give one away on the blog. He graciously agreed!
{{GIVE-AWAY!}}
If you'd like to be entered into the drawing to win this book, it's easy. You can enter up to three times per person. You get one entry for simply commenting. You get one entry for telling people about The Better World Shopping Guide on facebook. You get one entry for tweeting about The Better World Shopping Guide. Please include all your entries in one comment. You do not have to link to my blog or this give-away. You can simply tell people about The Better World Shopping Guide and give them the link (below) to check it out if they want.
If you just can't wait another second to own this little book, you can buy it here from the Trade as One website for under $10.
Aren't you dying to know how Target ranks? And what about Nabisco? Hershey? What about Old Navy? Gap?
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82 comments:
Would love this guide to "guide" my shopping. I am so cheap when it comes to buying things, but now that I have been reading this series, I can't help but think about who I'm hurting in the process.
PS-my hubby wants me to buy that "clinical strength" deodorant and I told him the exact same thing about the armpit cancer! He thought I was a lunatic...I'm glad I'm not the only one :)
And, I'm sharing on facebook!
YOU are one of my heroes. I'm loving this series sooooooo much. If I don't win the book, I'm selling some of mine and buying it.
p.s. I'm in the middle of the hugest purge right now. Part of me thinks I'm NUTS. The other part of me knows it and couldn't care less.
I would like to be entered too! I am also posting on FB.
I love this series and i keep checking back to see what else you have to say.
Great post Heather. I also really enjoyed your "Who are the poor?" series - great, thought-provoking stuff! Thank you for sharing your heart and your life with us so candidly.
Loved this: "The average American family spends around $18,000 every year on goods and services. Think of it as casting 18,000 votes every year for the kind of world you want to live in."
I couldn't wait, so I ordered the book.
This series has been on my mind so much lately. We went shopping and I couldn't help but think about who made the stuff and under what conditions they were made. It really curbed my shopping appetite.
This is an awesome series! It is changing my thoughts on living simply and also as a consumer.
I would love a copy of this book! I too am cheap, though I even shy away from the natural deodorant and go for what's low on the cosmetic safety database and does the job. ;)
Just found your blog today--going to look around some more!
I'm also sharing this on facebook.
I've loved your blog for a long time. I'd love to win the shopping guide!
Love your blog, Heather! I am learning so much from you! Excited to read this book!
What a great idea! I'll be adding it to my list too if I don't win.
Shared on Twitter *and* Facebook! I want the book but hubby and I are out of jobs so I'm hoping I'll win :) If not, I'll keep an eye out for it when we're back making money again! Seriously, I am going to be very conscious about how I cast my 18,000 votes ...
of course i would love this book free!!! and if you were amish you would be wearing a full dress and bloomers and head covering in that haiti heat and need that cancer causing deodorant....but seriously 1/8 teaspoon of baking soda and an 1/8 teaspoon of water...mix in the palm of your hand...apply underarms...equals no stink......still sweat..but no stink...i had to share.....this tidbit of info has made me so happy!!......lol.....
keri
Would be an amazing resource!!
I love your blog! I came across it looking up the Apparent Project after I bought some of their jewelry. I appreciate what you are doing here, even though sometimes it isn't stuff I want to see, as then I feel it's stuff I should be accountable for :p...which really is for the better. So...thanks and I would love to win that book! I also shared this on Facebook. Thanks!!
Well, do I ever like this. And yes, I want to know. Kinda. Mostly.
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Commenting for an entry!!
I would absolutely love to get this book. If I don't win it on here, I'll definitely be investing in it. I've been looking for a way to figure this kind of stuff out for a while now, so I'm so excited to hear about this!
I'm so "Amish" I can't tweet and won't use Facebook. I do use baking soda for my hair but not my underarms... I have been using regular deoderant...
Love this series and the thoughts I have regarding MY sin and MY greed instead of thinking of these things as problems other Americans have....
I'd love to read the book... do you think the public library will get it?? :)
Beth,
It would be great if the library would get it, but it's really less of a "book" and more like a pocket-guide that you keep in your purse. Every page contains a different heading, like "shampoo" or "cereal". Then it lists companies, rating them from A-F. There is some information in the beginning of the guide, but mostly it's for quick reference when you're out and about shopping.
Heather
I'd love to have this guide! I will probably buy it if I don't win. C'mon, how handy is that little thing?? I do have a question though about your purging...I LOVE the idea of getting rid of so many things that aren't necessary, but how did you handle baby things? Every time I try to get rid of old stuff that we don't use anymore, I think to myself (for example) "Ethan learned how to walk pushing that toy around! And then Gavin used it! And then Grayson! I will never get rid of this!" Seriously, what's wrong with me? All my kids can walk! Why am I hanging onto this? So sorry for the super long comment. Please help me.
I would love this guide, and will probably buy it if I don't win...thanks so much for your blog! I also shared this link on facebook...
I haven't visited the blog world in a while but was so intrigued today by the book you posted about ... I did facebook and tweet! I can't wait to see who wins the giveaway ... thank you a million times over for being such an amazing inspiration!!
I would love to have a guide like this! But what i buy most of my "stuff" at Goodwill? Does that still adversely affect the poor in developing countries? Am I taking items
the poor in this country need?
I have a recipe for deodorant too, mix equal parts coconut oil, baking soil, and cornstarch. I've been using it for a few days, so far,so good!
I facebooked this post....and would love to win a copy of this guide....I have already drastically changed my buying habits in the past week-thanks so much for this post!
Question on this guide, I have noticed a few stores are outdated on the better world shopper website, is the author of this book continuously updating the book? do stores change their values much? I have SO many questions about all of this stuff :)
Thanks so much for doing the giveaway. I would love to have this book. I'll also share it on facebook.
Really appreciate your blog. Also shared on Facebook.
Brandy...
The kid's stuff was and is the hardest for me. I didn't get rid of much of the nostalgic stuff, but mostly because it was still being used by kids who were at our house all the time. I felt like that stuff needed to stay. There was plenty of other stuff that could go, but honestly...I struggled with letting go of most stuff. It's weird how attached I get to silly things.
Sandy...
Buying anything second hand is GREAT...really, one of the best things we can do for the environment is shop at resale shops. Resale shops/garage sale finds are wonderful because we aren't contributing financially to companies who are doing some really terrible things. We'll talk about fair trade in a couple days, but for the most part...I personally think second hand is a great way to shop and not feel any uncertainty about your purchase.
Amy...
I have the same questions about the book. I have the second version. I'm assuming the author is giving away a copy of the third edition. It's the newest one. So, I guess since it's already in it's third edition, hopefully that means there are changes/updates.
I'm going to give everyone another resource for shopping too. It will be interesting to see how the two compare.
Everyone....
I LOVE how this conversation is equal parts responsible consumerism and equal parts DEODORANT! Hilarious.
Heather
I would love this book. Thank you so much for the opportunity to learn and help us make a difference somewhere in this world.
Sign me up! Thanks!
Your blog is such a blessing. And this series is the best. My kids and I have purged and continue to purge...Would love to add this resource to help us with our buying decisions, Thanks
I am loving this series! Thanks for doing the hard work in finding all the info out for my lazy butt!
I love reading about your adventures of Haiti too..so inspiring to do what God is calling us all to do.
Ok ~ I don't want to wait; I bought the book, so you don't have to pick me ;-) but I gotta know (fingers are crossed and eyes are squeezed) how does Amazon rate?? please say at least a B, please say at least a B...
Wow. Your recent blog posts definitely have me thinking! God has been working in my heart along these fronts recently in other ways as well. Isn't that the way He usually works?
I will be checking out this book and will share about it on facebook as well! I don't "tweet" so I can't do that one, but that's okay!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey!
Here is my comment :) This will be my only entry, as I don't have facebook or twitter!
Thanks!
wow amazing series! would love to win this book to be better informed and a better steward of our money!
This series has made me think about consumerism in a whole new way. Thank you so much for your honest thoughts and willingness to share what you know. I would love a copy of this book.
I have a feeling I would both LOVE and HATE this book. Thanks for the chance to win a copy!
Blessings,
carin
Becoming Amish sounds heavenly to me. I am very interested to see what this book says about Gap, its my favorite place to shop:/. Love this series. It has me thinking about things I never even imagined. Thanks for making my brain hurt;). If I don't win this book I will buy it but I will want to know where you recommend to buy it.
You don't have to enter me, but I wanted to comment to say that I got this guide for the same reasons as you, and I LOVE it! It fits nicely in a purse. Thanks again for your great series.
I'll have to check this book out. After having my first child, I really started to realize how much we each consume and how much of it is unnecessary and wasteful. Buying things 'second hand' makes me feel a lot better than buying everything new. P.S. I just read good news about the deodorant... not as harmful as once thought. Whew!
Thank you for giving this easy tool!
I shared it with my facebook community.
love this guide- it makes me feel less intimidate about returning to american shopping in a couple months!
I am loving this series, Heather. Some of the words you are writing just seem so much like our own story and the journey God has been taking us on these past two and a half years. Love your heart and I would love this book too :)
Charity
Yes, I'm dying to know!!
i get most of my stuff 2nd hand. i'd be interested to read what the book has to say about that. i assume at that point i'm only supporting the retailer (or charity the thrift store supports) but it'd be interesting to read up. i certainly don't buy 2nd hand groceries!!
tweeted (@frugltrophywife) and facebooked (Brooke F)
Sounds like a great book - challenging and informative!
Wow, my husband and I were just talking about this, but not knowing where to start. Thanks for sharing. I'll definitely be sharing this on facebook!
I just learned about your blog last week and am really loving it. So much of what you're writing is putting words to what my heart and mind has been trying to form but not sure how to say and definitely not sure how to put into practice. So much to bring to God in prayer, which I'm doing and now my husband also. Thank you for so humbly sharing your journey with all of us.
I'm a bit afraid to see what's in this book, but want to all the same. No excuses once you have the knowledge, right? I hope I can buy one if I don't win this one.
I don't "tweet" but will be sharing about it on facebook!
Heather, I remember you reading through this ahile back and I was shocked at what you found. I finally feel ready to take the plunge and be real about what is going on in the retail industry. :)
Oh, and I tweeted about this, too!
Very, very interesting stuff! Thank you!
I've been wanting a copy of this book for a while! So, I posted about the book on facebook and I tweeted about it. And here's my comment! Thanks for doing this!
Usually when I shop for something of substantial costs, I go to Consumer Reports for their guidance. Now I find out there is this book that rates each product by how it impacts our world (positively or negatively). This is a great resource and I need to get it! Your comments were insightful and made me think of how I could impact the world by living simply and responsibly.
What a great idea...will get the book on my own if I don't win!
Thank you so much for doing this series! If I don't win I am definitely buying the book anyway.
I'm commenting for one entry and I shared it on Twitter as mrsgowins for a 2nd entry.
I'd love to win this book! My husband and I have been trying to figure out how to live our lives in accordance with Radical given our current contracts with our companies. I'd love to be able to at least buy my clothes and other products from good companies.
Great info! I'm still working up the guts to switch deoderant.... :)
I would love to win this guide!!
I posted on FB!
This would be a great thing to win. This has been eye opening.
I have to be honest...I'm kind of afraid to find out about Target!
Awesome idea! I posted on FB too. :)
This looks like a great resource! Thanks for offering it to us~ and for providing the info!
I want to enter!
Really enjoying reading your posts. It is a rising awareness, and I DO want to know where Gap etc rank!
Would love, love, love, love this.
argh...forgot to say that I also put it on facebook. sorry!
This would be fabulous! Thanks for the giveaway!!!
Would love to read this book!!
I'd love to wind. Thanks!
I would love to get this book! I tried using the online resource (without a smartphone) and was excited to purchase an "A" item according to my memory of the list... only to realize later my memory was incorrect--it was a "C-" item. Bummer.
Feel my heart resisting. Not wanting to know...which means I really need to.
Blessings
Laura
I just got the book from the library and quickly paged through it. I have to say I am really saddened to see that almost everything I buy is ranked poorly.
But, we have 5 boys, including a 13year old and an almost 12 year old that eat a LOT of food! All those products that either got an A or B are SO expensive! How on earth would I be able to feed my family of 7 on any sort of a budget?!
I'm wondering if I switch over all my grocery shopping to Trader Joe's - which is still rated high but not quite as expensive as say, Whole Foods - if that would be a good solution.
I just don't see how it would be possible to buy everything (well, not even everything, just a few things!) that are rated A when they are priced SO much higher than the F rated products?
It just doesn't seem fair!
Thoughts on how to do this on a budget?
Hi, I've been stalking your blog for awhile and must say that I thoroughly "enjoy" it...meaning I laugh, I cry, and I am convicted, all rolled up into one. :) Your kids are adorable, and I really appreciate your transparency and honesty when you write about real life and hard things. Thank you! Anyways...I am finally commenting b/c I would LOVE this book! Thanks for hosting the contest. I'll be sharing about it on Facebook as well!
Five boys...
These are really great questions. I do have a couple ideas I'll share. We have a really limited budget, so I found that for us, to be able to afford better food products, I had to learn to make a bunch of stuff on my own. You may already do that. I was clueless. In the end, I will say it has caused us to eat a lot healthier...something we just kind of fell into as we tried to readjust our spending. When we started this journey, I had no idea it would affect our diet so much in a positive way, but now I'm very thankful.
Also,...there are still times when I can't shop at stores with the highest ratings. Some of those stores aren't even in our town. The guide was still very helpful to guide me in making better choices when trying to choose between a variety of brands.
I totally hear you though. It feels so overwhelming at first. I was tempted to throw in the towel a few times, but after reading up on what my savings cost other people, the convictions were too deep to walk away from them.
Looking back, God was faithful and we have learned a lot of valuable lessons as we've asked Him to help us spend wisely and consider the laborers who make our products.
I know it seems like a lot right now, but if God is truly convicting you and growing you in this area...and opening your eyes, the only thing I can say with confidence is that God is faithful to teach us every single step of the way. I truly believe He will guide you through this and give you tons of ideas and creativity.
Heather
I'll try to give some ideas soon. There were lots of products that we used to buy...but the "A" rated products were crazy expensive. In those situations, I tried to figure out how to make the item instead of buying it. That has always proven to save a lot of money, and shockingly, it wasn't even very hard to do.
Jelly was one of those for us. The "A" rated jellies were all organic and expensive. We go through jelly like no body's business. PB&J's are a staple in our house. So that's when I asked a friend to teach me how to make Jelly. Now we buy our peaches from a locally owned farm...it only takes a couple hours to make a year's worth of jelly.
I'll try to think of more ideas like those. I have a friend who can also share some great ideas as well. I'll ask her to write a post.
Heather
Would love this! And I'll post on Facebook.
Thank you for offering this...really hoping I win! If not, will put this on my "want to own" list. Was recently convicted about my buying habits when I was excited to find some inexpensive cloth-diapers (eco-friendly, right?!), only to find out they were made in Chinese sweatshops. We also recently spent time with my husband's family who are Vietnamese and heard stories from his aunts about long days of sewing without food or even water. : (
Thank you, Heather, for your thorough response! Yes, I do believe that God is nudging us in this area. And I think that one thing I could do is definitely make more food from scratch. We have a terrible addiction over here especially for Captain Crunch - too bad I can't make THAT from scratch!! :) But bread would probably be an easy thing to make at first - also muffins and waffles. We eat lots of bread products over here...
We have a small garden right now and I know that's another great thing to do.
Thankfully, we are HUGE thrifters and love buying almost all our clothes second hand. But it's this food issue that is very hard for me. I do NOT enjoy cooking and baking so changing how we eat and what we buy will be a HUGE adjustment for me. Need to sit on this one and pray on it awhile...
Thanks again!
(And it's Sue, please, not Fiveboys! :)
This book looks so interesting! I'll have to see if our library has it.
I love your blog. Your honesty and sense of humor are a great combination that keeps me coming back! I'd love to be entered for the book. Thanks!
Wow! Super post! I find this really challenging and really encouraging. You've certainly given my husband and I something to wrestle with!
Amelia
I love this challenge you're offering, even by just sharing how you've been moved. This book looks awesome!
I would love a free copy of this book. I stumbled on your blog through Stuff Christians Like and your ideas are a journey I have never really considered taking . . . but maybe now I will.
I don't like this series, but I can't not read it... I'm hoping I don't win this book, because I really, honestly, don't want to make these changes.
Why can't following God be easier?
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